home
login::signup
we::blog

Best friends can become strangers.

You know whats weird..how easily a friendship can be lost. 
You can be the best of friends, and then after one fight, hate eachother. I've had a couple of those. 
There were 4 of us. Then, we lost one, because she seemed to have way more time for her boyfriend, then she did for us. We talk to her now, and have tried to hang out with her again, but things will never be the same. And then we lost another one. She lied. Pretty much it, we got sick of it.  
Then there were two. And me and Helen have never faught. And we're still best friends. 
But we got a new 'group' of friends. There were 5. And again, we just lost one due to lieing and backstabbing. I don't understand people. The 4 of us are as close as can be, so thats good. 
But not even that, just like friends you would talk to and hang out with, are practically strangers now. Like thinking back to grade school, I don't talk to anyone from there anymore - the fact that 90% of them turned emo can have something to do with it. But its just weird. And even friends I was with in grade 9 and 10, some have just drifted. Like, how can friends become strangers? 
Or even ex's. Like how can you share every living moment and have so much love an affection for someone...and then the next moment, not even talk anymore, or even make eye contact, when he/she used to be the only person who could put a smile on your face. How can a relationship change on such a level? 
Or I have a group of friends I hang out with right now. Like the 4 of us, plus like 5 guys, who are all in grade 12. Four of them are planning on going to university next year...will that just happen to us too? Will we all just drift apart, after being so close for a year. I would hate that, but its going to happen. Maybe not to all of us, but some of us will lose touch with the others..and that sucks.

last modified Nov 26, 2005 at 12:06



[ add a comment ]