"Question everything."
Check.
 |
|
Let It Be
In all relationships there is conflict. Friendships, love, lust, business etc. The difficulty lies not in avoiding the conflicts but in how to deal with them. There are 2 broad categories when dealing with a conflict. You can ignore it, or deal with it. With the later, there are subcategories. Do you duke it out, reach a mutally favorable decision and then forget it. Do you work it out, and let it be. Or are you simply not able to get over it and the conflict effectively ends the relationship. All of these possibilities come with there own set of pros and cons which are usually specific to the situation. But how can you decide what to do. What conflict simply too big for the relationship to withstand. When do you dig your heals in and fight and when do you walk away. Obviously one must decide this for themselves. Based on how important they deem the relationship to be.
Choose your battles wisely is indeed good advice, for often we choose to fight those that we should let go, and we let go those we should fight.
0 comments